Many years ago, I went to Chicago with my partner. I can honestly say that up until that point, I’d never seen a city so big. We stayed on the 5th floor – this might have been the first time I’d been on the 5th floor of anything, come to think of it. Looking out the window felt like looking into a diorama – the nooks and crannies, the shady figures, the police cars and their little lights… I felt like I was an outside observer, watching the city from above as all of its stories unfolded. Every gated brick storefront felt like a place where someone was trying to do something they cared about, trying to make something happen.
The next day, we went to see Blue Man Group at the Briar Street Theatre - a place that embodied the grit that I’d perceived from my perch in the Hilton. Corrugated plastic tubes formed a mass on the ceiling, criss-crossing from beaker to beaker containing various fluorescent solutions; tubes occasionally exited the wall at a right angle, and the surrounding crowd quickly determined that putting your ear up to one of the tubes would yield a wide variety of sounds, ranging from speeches to music to what I can only assume was the recorded gossip of a pod of humpback whales.
In 2014, I stayed at the Mariah in Mojave, the night before my interview with Scaled Composites. I had flown in to LAX and taken a rental car up to Mojave. On the drive up, I noticed that the music was different. I found some laid-back rap on the radio as I drove through Palmdale; I opened the window to warm, dry air. As I continued north, it was very dark, with the blinking red lights of the wind farm creating a point cloud that described the Tehachapi mountains in perfect detail. When I got out of the car at the hotel, I noticed that parking spaces were suggestions – in the flat dirt of the desert, you can park almost anywhere, and people did.
When I got to my first-floor room, I looked out the window at the spaceport – there were huge buildings in the distance and the few outside clues as to what was inside them were exciting. Here, too, I got the sense that around every corner lurked a project or a person or an idea. This was a new place and anything was possible.
Ever since the first time I stayed in a hotel, the first thing I’ve always done when I get to the room is walk to the window and see what’s outside. It’s rarely been any particularly grand vista, but it’s been a window into a world of possibility and excitement. I’ve usually gotten there at night, and I don’t know what’s out there yet. There could be friends and enemies, monsters even. There could be wonders beyond my wildest dreams. Who knows?
This changed in the last few years. When I get to a room, I close the blinds, turn on the TV, and usually fall asleep within the hour. I’m tired and jaded. I could swear the rooms used to be nicer; now it seems like everything is broken. The hinges on the cupboards are loose… the tile in the bathroom is cracked… I always have to hold the TV remote really high so that it actually sees the TV.
So many things have changed for me. The aerospace industry doesn’t have the same allure that it once did. When I walk by a cracked hangar door blocked by a black curtain, I don’t wonder what’s inside anymore. When a program I’m involved in gets close to flight test, I’m not clamoring to be on the test team. When I get up at 3am for a briefing at 4am, I haven’t been sitting awake in bed for the last 30 minutes, excitedly waiting for my alarm to go off.
As I stare out the window of a fifth-floor room at the Holiday Inn Express in Palmdale, I can feel flickers of that sense of adventure. I’m looking out at Plant 42, with Lockheed’s massive buildings sprawled across a dark expanse carved out within the city lights. I’ve stayed at the Holiday Inn in Lancaster a ton. This one’s new. I don’t know what restaurants are nearby. I don’t know what projects are hidden in all these buildings or who’s working tirelessly inside to bring them to life. And I feel the slightest tickle of that sense of adventure, and it’s great. I feel like I can do something in this life, and I feel the excitement of not knowing what that’s going to be.
I think about the first time I fell in love. The love that I know now is so much more and so much less at the same time. I think my professional ambitions might be evolving in the same way. I’ve struggled with the emptiness of realizing that the topical world of sleepless nights and fast-burn engineering challenges isn’t enough for me. As that emptiness fades, it’s replaced by a growing excitement for what I can do with my newfound patience for the day-to-day problem solving that’s needed to be more than just a follower, more than just an enabler of the latest billionaire’s wet dream. It feels like a superpower that I can use to finally power through the drudgery of taking my own ideas as far they can really go.
I have to confess that I’ve never actually read Seth Godin’s The Dip, but I feel like my career up to this point has mostly jumped from project to project as they exit their own dips. I look at the years of effort that have gone into some of the programs that I’ve joined as a finish-line firefighter, and I have a newfound respect for the work that got them there. While I think in many cases engineers who follow programs for years do so out of a desire for security, I think that the commitment and even keel required to stick with something worth doing for that long is not entirely dissimilar from the forces that keep long-term couples together, and I really do think there’s something beautiful about that.
If you’ve read this far, you’ve stuck with me through a rambling exploration of what it’s like for me to realize that my professional life is never going to be the same; reading it back to myself, it’s admittedly fallen disconcertingly close to my romantic life, but I’m going take a hard left turn away from drawing any conclusions about that. For now, I’m looking forward to tackling bigger, deeper problems that matter. I’m looking forward to the hard parts. I’m looking forward to summoning the energy to take a project through the doldrums to reach its full potential, and I’m looking forward to communicating that energy to those working alongside me. I’m excited to stay in more hotels.